Trisha was born in Bellevue Washington and spent her growing up years in the suburbs of Seattle including Woodinville and mostly in Snohomish. She had 5 sisters. Both her parents were converts to the church. She is related to Naomi Randall who wrote the song I am a Child of God. She knows this because whenever her grandmother would attend church with her, her grandma would tell Trisha about it. Trisha's dad joined the church when he was a teenager and her mother joined the church after meeting him. First they were married civily which meant later they were able to take their kids to the Provo temple for the beautiful experience of being sealed together as an eternal family.
While growing up, Trisha loved all things horses. She rode both English and Western style but mostly western style (Western style is the more rodeo type and English is the more horse jumping type). She did all kinds of riding including patterns, showmanship and trail riding. As a teenager she even won state for trail riding. A lot of this riding however happened on Sunday so as a teenager Trisha was inactive.
As Trisha graduated from High School, her father told her if she wanted to go away to school he would pay for it if she would attend Ricks College (at the time it was a 2 year college but now is BYU Idaho). One night after moving to Idaho, Trisha was feeling really sick. Her neighbor happened to be in the nursing program at the college so she came over to help Trisha. This neighbor happened to know a lot about the gospel and started teaching Trisha things about the church. As they talked, Trisha came up with more and more questions and her questions became deeper and deeper. She was so fascinated by the gospel and the things her neighbor was telling her. She thought it sounded fabulous!
She was so enthralled with the new things she was learning about the gospel that she wrote to her dad telling him to send the missionaries over to her best friend still in Washington. Well, one of the missionaries who went to visit her friend started writing Trisha. So between the things this missionary was telling her about missionary work and the stuff she was learning at church and from her neighbor, Trisha decided she wanted to serve a mission. By the time she came home the next summer she had submitted her mission papers and received a call to serve a mission in the Philippines.
She loved her mission. She said , for her a lot of the reason she felt like she served a mission was so that she could learn the gospel. After having been inactive for a while, it felt so good and was such a great experience to learn what the gospel was all about. She loved her mission so much she extended twice and almost ended up serving a 24 month mission. Her parents wondered if she was ever coming home.
After completing her mission she went back to Ricks College for a semester. While at home, between summer and fall semester she started attending an institute class and as part of being in institute was set up in a family home evening group for singles. There she met 3 great friends one who was named Nelson Grant. Every week after the Family Home Evening group Trisha, Nelson and another guy and girl would hang out and play games until about midnight. They had so much fun. She became best friends with Nelson but made it very clear they were just friends. Little did she know, it was too late, he was already in love with her. Finally, after her dating several other guys her girlfriend set Nelson up on a date with someone else. This really angered Trisha. She became very jealous. From that experience she realized maybe she should try and date Nelson and see if their relationship could become more than just friends. Sure enough 4 months later they were engaged.
Unfortunately, life deals us many hard blows and after 5 years of blissful marriage and 3 beautiful daughters (including a set of twins who were 9 months) tragedy struck. One morning while Nelson was driving his UPS route, he was in a car accident and was killed. That left Trisha alone with her children. The accident received an enormous amount of media coverage and was so tragic for the community that everyone knew who she was and her situation.
After two years of living in Snohomish with her girls, Trisha decided she needed to move on. She wanted to live somewhere where she wasn't constantly reminded of the tragedy. So she packed up her and her three little girls and moved to Pleasant Grove Utah. She said this was one of the happiest times of her life. Her and her little girls did all kinds of fun things together. They went out to dinner all the time, went on outings and would pick up and do family trips whenever they felt like it. They were having a blast just being together. Trisha also attended esthetician school, very part time and got her master esthetician's license.
As part of being single Trisha started dating, but she was very protective of her little girls. She wasn't interested in bringing men around them. So she joined
ldssingles.com. Here she met many friends and mostly they would just chat on-line. Online dating was a new frontier and Trisha even went onto a radio talk show explaining to people how to participate and how to maintain your safety. With one of the friends she met online (his name was Vaughn) she started a site devoted to lds singles who were widowed/widowered. A new widower named Dave Call came onto the site and her friend Vaughn told her she really needed to meet him. He mentioned that he also had 3 boys and a set of twins nearly the same age as hers.
So one night they hooked up on the phone, because he lived in California and she lived in Utah. Trisha had been praying for years, very specifically about what she wanted in a husband. The first time they talked, they talked from 9 at night until about 8 in the morning. While they were talking the Brady Bunch was playing on TV in the background and Trisha felt like she had been hit over the head with a hammer. She knew this was the person she was supposed to marry. He had every one of the qualities she had been praying for in a spouse. After dating about 9 months, they were married and just like the Brady Bunch, Trisha brought her 3 little girls into the marriage and Dave brought his 3 little boys.
Trisha still works as an esthetician. She loves it. She has a salon in her basement and is able to be home and available for all of their children. She still has horses and loves all animals. She feels like animals are apart of her being and it would be very hard for her not to have them as part of her life.
Now that she is facing her children leaving home in the next 3 years, she is looking to the future. She's still working out what she wants to do with it, but she feels strongly that she would like to be there to help people as they face death. She said that when her 1st husband died it was tragic that people didn't know how to talk to her. So many people just wouldn't talk to her or would just act like everything was business as usual. Her experiences really openned her up to realize that people need someone to show empathy and kindness to them without showing feeling that they have to have something to say that's going to make everything all better or giving pitty. She hopes she can be there and help others in that situation.