Cynthia
was born in Salt Lake City at LDS hospital. She spent her growing up
years living all over the Western side of Greater Salt Lake area. She
said her family ended up moving about once a year the whole time she
was growing up.
Cynthia’s
childhood was filled with lots of memories of playing. She would come
home from school and go play with her friends. On the weekends, her
parents would load her and her 3 siblings up in the car. They would
go up to the mountains for breakfast or lunch. Then they would spend
the entire day wandering around the mountain. She loved this time.
They enjoyed spending time together as a family and in fact they are
still very close today. They all live on the Wasatch front and
usually get together at least once a month.
Once
Cynthia was in Jr. High, although her family still moved, they made
sure to stay within the same school boundaries. So for Jr. High she
attended Elk Ridge Jr. High in South Jordan and Copper Hills High
School in West Jordan.
Because
her family wasn't very wealthy, Cynthia had to work to provide her
own clothes, entertainment, vehicles and personal needs. This was a
great blessing in her life and helped her learn important life
lessons in finances and money management. As soon as she was old
enough, she always worked. She would go to school all day, come home,
go to work, then come home again and do homework. She still however,
managed to go to most of the school dances.
Working
also helped her gain confidence in herself that she could do hard
things. Her first year in High School she babysat for a family. Then
her family moved in a new home. The lady who they were buying the
home from was quitting her job as a receptionist at a physical
therapy office. When Cynthia heard this woman was quitting she
thought to herself, « I bet I could do that job. » She
applied and got the job. She worked there the next two years of high
school.
While
she was a junior she took a ceramics class. She walked in and noticed
a boy named Nathan Page. Actually she thought he was kind of hard to
miss, he was a loud mouth and drew a lot of attention to himself.
Cynthia is naturally a bit quiet and shy so she tried to find a place
to sit away from him, but the only seat available was right behind
his chair, so reluctantly she sat there. It seemed like the whole
first month he just kept turning around to her and asking her all
kinds of questions about the class. He even asked her if she would
help him study for an upcoming test. She had a soft heart, so she
agreed to help him.
When
he came to study for the test. They started generally talking before
diving into the material, to break the ice, but before they knew it a
whole hour had gone by and they hadn't talked about the test at all.
Still Cynthia had a boyfriend so Nathan didn't ask her out. Nathan
did however notice she and her boyfriend were having troubles, so he
observantly waited. As soon as he heard they had broken up, he
swooped in and asked her out. It wasn't long after that he asked her
to be his girlfriend.
They
dated through the rest of their junior year and were married the next
year after both of them had graduated early. In fact, they got
married the day of Prom. It was very fun because all of their friends
came to the wedding and reception dressed in their prom outfits. It
is a great memory for them.
After
graduation, Nathan joined the Marines. After only 8 months of
marriage, he headed to boot camp and Cynthia went home to live with
her parents. While he was gone, she found out she was pregnant. She
wrote Nathan right away, but due to a barracks relocation, Nathan
wasn't getting her letters. But a friend of his from high school was
getting letters. Someone wrote to the friend and told him about the
pregnancy and he congratulated Nathan. Cynthia laughs that this is
the way he found out.
Nathan
received his travel orders after graduating in February to Okinawa
Japan. He was also informed that Cynthia couldn't travel with him.
She stayed home with her parents and he left. They wouldn't be
reunited again until their first son, Kamin, was 10 month old.
When
Nathan returned, he was stationed in Quantico Virginia. He was then
deployed to the Republic of Georgia in Southeast Asia; so again,
Cynthia packed up and went home to live with her family. Upon
returning, after a lot of careful consideration, they made the
decision that it was time for Nathan to get out of the military. He
applied for a job in California and when their second son, Rylie, was
3 weeks old, they moved to Temecula CA, just north of San Diego.
For
this job, Nathan was flying and traveling all over the world. Cynthia
was home alone a lot with the kids, so for the third time, she packed
up and moved back home with her parents. The traveling was becoming
too much so Cynthia and Nathan decided a new job would be a better
fit in order to spend more time together. So Nathan took a new job
and they moved to Poway CA again just outside of San Diego.
They
lived there 3 years, and their 3rd
son Asher joined their family. Also Nathan was able to graduate from
College. They however, were concerned about the environment Southern
California was for their growing boys. The schools didn't seem that
great and the influence from the kids in the neighborhood weren't
fabulous. So Nathan took a job transfer in the company back to Utah.
Their home sold very quickly but the day they closed on their home,
they found out the job had gone south, Nathan would have to continue
with his job in California without the family. They looked at each
other and decided they still wanted to move to Utah, so for the final
time, Cynthia took the kids and went back home, while Nathan stayed
in California working and applying for jobs in Utah. Eventually he
landed a job with BAE Systems at Hill AFB. As soon as he started
working there, he and Cynthia put a down payment down on their lot.
With their future looking bright
here in Utah, Cynthia's parents now decided to move in with them.
With two capable mom's available, it seemed silly for everyone to
stay home, so Cynthia took a job at BAE Systems (The same company
Nathan works for) and has worked there for almost a year.
Through
all of these experiences I asked Cynthia what piece of wisdom she has
gained. She said, “Enjoy every moment of your life, even the hard
parts. The hard parts make us who we are. In the end it all works out
for the best.”
I
think Cynthia is an amazing woman. Her support and behind the scenes
caretaking has made it possible for her family to accomplish and go
through great and hard things. It is clear she is deeply devoted to
her family. She is pleasant and loving and very easy to talk to. I
hope you will all take the opportunity to get to know her and the
rest of the Page family.
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